Okay so my husband is in the US Navy. We lived in florida for 4yrs. And then got relocated to wichita, kansas in august! Well after all the drama of living on base in florida we decided we didn't want to live on base again for awhile! So we started renting a really nice house, with a basement that has a bedroom and a full bathroom.
Well we have had our share of marriage problems, but this time is got worse. We didn't understand each other, and it was like we were just room mates, which was very hard. I then decided to move to texas with our Two children and live with my sister. I got a job and everything.
On the 4th week that I was in Tx. My husband called and told me he really wanted to work this out and us be together, but I was tired of trying, and I heard that line before.
On the 6th week of living there My husband called and begging me to come home but I didn't want to go. Then he asked me to do one last thing for him. And that was to watch the movie 'Fireproof'. Now if u are having marriage problems it is the perfect movie to watch. I cried like a baby when I watched it and it made me want to work everything out but I still wasn't sure.
On the 7th week my husband was sending me presents, surprise visits, asking me out toi dinner, and was being amazing. It felt really weird because that's not how he is! I asked him what was up and he finally told me he was reading a book called 'The Love Dare'. In the movie 'Fire Proof' they had that book. I really didn't thing it was a real book, so I looked it up at the book store. I was very surprised to know he was reading it.
On the 8th week I told my husband I wanted to go home and work out everything. And in a surprise 5 hrs later her was knocking on my sisters door. He drove from kansas to texas just to come get me! :)
So it has been 6 weeks since I have left Texas, and my husband is still following the love dare!
Since I have been back we have decide to move on base here so we won't have to worry about bills, and we could have a new start at a new marriage. So on saturday we move into our new place. I keep getting asked what if there is drama and I know there won't be because I am careful of who I chose for friends now. And I'm happy with my 1 friend on base. So I'm super excited about the move, the new changes in our marriage, and the upcoming events.
If you are having marriage problems, watch 'fireproof' and decide if you want to read the book or give the movie to someone you know with marriage problems.
Thursday, January 14, 2010
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